Bad Conducts Of Humanity

By
The Man Who Saw God Face To Face
Raphael Okechukwu Nweze

1. Idleness.
   


2. Backbiting.
   


3. Spiritual ignorance.
   


4. Spiritual indolence.
   


5. neglect of spiritual consultation on very important issues of life or on family matters.
   


6. Non-challant attitudes to prophetic messages and revelations.
   


7. Living as if all is well, when so many things are going wrong. That is pretended peace and false confidence.
   


8. Frustrating the good works of God.
   


9. Dirtiness.
   


10. Keeping silent when people are doing wrong things.
    


11. Drunkenness.
    


12. Lack of interest and enthusiasm in the things of God.
    


13. Crazy habit for money and wealth.
    


14. A very poor prayer habit.
    


15. Urinating in the public. How many times have you seen a woman urinating in an open space?
    

1. Being easily offended.
   


2. Uncompromising attitude (igba iwe).
   


3. Very aggressive.
   


4. Very insultive.
   


5. Fond of enmity. The very bad women would like you to become enemy to whoever that is her enemy. Many of them are so wicked that if you advise her on the right thing to do, she immediately and for that becomes your enemy. Just because you gave her advise.
   


6. Unforgiving spirit. “Our case shall end in heaven.” “Unless God comes down, our case shall never be settled.”
   


7. Troublesomeness. After a session of peaceful settlement, the men would rise and go home with joy and satisfaction. But, a woman would go to the opponent and say, “Our case has not ended. Now, you will see trouble.”
   


8. Retaliation.
   


9. Antagonism.
   


10. Prone to tell lies. A man tells a lie and is afraid of being caught. But, a woman would tell a thousand lies and pretend as if she has said nothing. Consider the case of a woman, who became pregnant out of wedlock. When she gave birth, she put the little baby girl in a waterproof bag and flung it away into a gully. As God would have it, the bag landed by the side of the gully and hung there. After several days, another person fund the bag with the baby inside it. By then, the baby was being infested by flies and maggots. The father of the defaulting lady asked the lady, but the lady denied it saying that she never did such a thing.
    After about fourteen (14) years, the child started demanding to return to the mother. She was taken to the mother. And the grand mother, on seeing the girl, said “This girl is exactly like the mother.” At times I spend time to think about the women folk. Physically, they appear soft and gentle, but many of them have very strong and tough hearts, very hardened hearts.
    


11. Harshness. One person phoned a girl. The girl picked up her phone and said, “Any day you would try this nonesene again….”
    


12. Very impatient. You phone a girl and she picks up her phone and said, “Yes, what do you have to say? I have only one minute for you.” And before you know it, she has switched off the phone.
    


13. Very unfriendly disposition. All that many a house wife knows how to do best is to go the office and collect money from the husband or the husband’s cashier. Their movement is always straight to the office, collect the money and march out as if there are no other people in the office. She would care to greet the workers, who are making the money she is ‘swandering’.
    


14. Merciless heart. A woman was told that his relation was sick. Do you know what the woman said? She said, “Let the sickness continue with him.” And the messenger said, “The sickness is so much that he may die.” And the woman retorted, “Let him die now. Is he greater than those who have died.” Merciless heart.
    


15. Come and see the women talk to their husband, as if their husband is their house boy, the slave, a stranger or an enemy. A man was traveling on the road inside a bus with the wife. When the man saw some unexpected animals, he said to the wife, “See these wonderful animals!” and the woman merely said, “And then?”
    That is why I do ask the women folk, “This soft and beautiful voice you use in talking to the men of God, do you use it in conversing with your husband?”
    


16. Many of them would not pick up the phone to answer when their husband is calling them. If at all she picks up the phone, she would sound so indifferent and unperturbed.
    


17. Come and see them cooking food for the family. They would curse and murmur as if the curses and murmurings are the ingredients for making soup. “Kitikpa, amusu, ozu.” They forget that words are spirits and that words enter into anything around the speaker.
    


18. Often debating with drivers about transport fare. This contrary to Jesus that your words should be very few. Why are you always haggling about prices? You suppose to know the price and pay it without saying so many words, which are spiritually unnecessary. Physically, the person who haggles most seems to be the wisest and smartest, but spiritually such a person is unreliable, because he is always beating about the bush.
    


19. Unnecessary insistence. This happens at bus stop. The driver would stop to drop a passenger. Another passenger is there in the bus who would go down after two poles. And the second person would sit tight inside the bus so that the driver would stop her exactly after two poles. Where is the spirit of mercy given to you? Where is the spirit of consideration in you? Why cann’t you go down from the bus and trek a little. Don’t you know that walking is one of the best forms of exercise? Observe our women and see how many of them are growing out of shape due to obesity. Don’t you know that walking about reduces obesity?